Brat Tamer

Our Definition

a dominant who enjoys and/or prefers to play with bratty submissives; a dominant who enjoys punishing misbehavior.

Real Life Examples

Steve likes when his partner “misbehaves” in-scene and enjoys doling out funishment. 

Harlo feels more dominant in-scene when his partner puts up a fight. 

Common Practices &


Everyone is different! You'll see this repeated throughout our website and glossary. Common practices and experiences for brat tamers include, but certainly aren't limited to:

  • Communicating with partners and prospective scene partners about the type of bratting that is preferred, as well as about boundaries and limitations.
  • Involving some degree of role-play in scenes.
  • Engaging with “funishment” 
  • Preferring play that involves the trappings of a fight. 
  • “Conqueror” fantasies 

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