a piece of jewelry or accessory that is worn regularly as a symbol and reminder, frequently of an important and committed dynamic or of a commitment to self-ownership. Generally it is discreet in appearance, often passing for conventional jewelry.
Real Life Examples
Beula wears a chain bracelet to symbolize her D/s dynamic with her partner while still blending into the dress code at her job as a zoo-keeper.
Francoise wears a delicate chain that fastens with a small lock as a day collar, which serves as a reminder of self-ownership.
Everyone is different! You'll see this repeated throughout our website and glossary. Common practices involving day collars include, but certainly aren't limited to:
- Shopping for a piece that will fit in with the wearer’s everyday wardrobe.
- Deciding on whether this will be for 24/7 wear, or for special occasions, and choosing the materials and durability accordingly.
- Incorporating locks or screws in place of typical jewelry clasps
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