Restrained Grace Presents: The Modern BDSM Glossary
Restrained Grace Presents: The Modern BDSM Glossary

We've begun building a glossary of terms related to sex positivity, kink, BDSM, social justice, gender, sexuality and healthy relationships. 


What you'll find here are our definitions based on widely accepted definitions, along with an update for the roaring 2020s. 


You won't find aggressive gendering or heteronormativity here. 

You also won't find a guide telling you how to do BDSM the One True Way.


We believe BDSM is customizable. There's no one size fits all for relationships, sex, or kink. Here you can explore, share, and learn about the many ways these things are practiced.

A-F

BDSM

Blood Play

Body Worship

Bondage

Bottom

Brat

Brat Tamer

Breath Play

Breeding

Caregiver

CGl

Chastity

Cis / Cisgender

Clueless Horny Dom Wannabe / CHDW

Collar

Compersion

Consent

Consensual Non-Consent / CNC

Daddy

Day Collar

DD/lg & DD/lb

Degradation

Discipline

Dominant

Fake Dom

G-K

L-P

Play Collar

Master

M/s

MD/lg & MD/lb

Mommy

Q-Z

Tumblr Dom

G-K

L-P

Q-Z