a popular and widely recognized set of safe words that follow the convention of traffic lights, with green meaning “go” yellow meaning “caution” and red meaning “stop”
Real Life Examples
Juniper uses the stop light system with new or casual partners rather than coming up with unique ones.
Vick prefers the stoplight system to other safewords because they find it simple enough to remember in the moment.
Everyone is different! You'll see this repeated throughout our website and glossary. Common practices involving the stoplight system include, but certainly aren't limited to:
- Use as a sort of default, especially with new play partners.
- Wide recognition amongst members of the BDSM community.
- Using a modified version, as suits one’s needs.
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