Gold Petite Chain Day Collar Day Collar Restrained Grace
Gold Petite Chain Day Collar Day Collar Restrained Grace
Gold Petite Chain Day Collar Day Collar Restrained Grace

Gold Petite Chain Day Collar


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Our Guarantee

Our handcrafted jewelry and day collars are made in-house -literally, out of our homes! If you ever have any concerns about your piece, please contact us, and we'll make it right.


Our petite chain day collar features a classic heart shaped padlock, optionally engraved with your custom text, and a lovely gold chain, for an elegant take on a classic chain day collar.

  • 100% Nickel Free
  • 1" heart shaped lock is optionally engraved with your custom text on the front, back, or both.
    • The key hole is considered the front of the lock.
    • 2 matching keys included
  • 6x4mm gold anodized stainless steel chain.
    • The links of the chain are not soldered, but it is very strong.
  • Day collars are made for form, not function: please avoid tugging on this collar more than necessary.
  • Made to measure:
    • This collar will be made to the length you specify, so if all you have to go by is a neck measurement, we recommend adding at least .5" to 1" for comfort.
    • Ideally we recommend measuring where you would like the collar to rest on the collarbone. 
Care & Cleaning

Storage, Care, & Cleaning

    All of our pieces are made to last with proper care. 
    To keep your piece looking beautiful, we recommend the following:

    Avoid getting it wet

    • Avoid getting leather wet, as this will warp and discolor the leather and eventually cause the leather to break down.
      • If you do accidentally get your leather wet, dry it off with a towel, and lay it flat to dry thoroughly in a cool, dry place.
      • Do not heat the leather in an attempt to dry it, as this will cause the leather to crack and warp.
    • Water, from a shower, pool, lake, ocean, and even sweat will react with the plating. Rose gold contains copper, and this will cause it to oxidize. Even sterling silver will oxidize black. This goes double for any piece with beads, including pearls and crystals. Water will damage any beading.

    Avoid chemicals

    • Avoid getting sprays of any kind on your leather. Hairspray, perfume or cologne, or any other kinds of chemicals can negatively effect the finish of the leather, and build up over time.
    • Perfumes, body sprays, hair sprays, any kind of spray. Lotions, sunscreen, moisturizers. Anything you put on your body should be applied and dry before your jewelry or gear goes on.

    Don't wear it 24/7

    • ​​​​​​​Plating, unfortunately, has a lifespan, and the more you wear it, the faster it will fade. We recommend solid gold, sterling silver and stainless steel for 24/7 collars.

    Keep it clean

    • Our leather is fully finished and does not require any conditioning, however, you will want to make sure you keep it clean. 
    • To clean your leather, use a damp cloth to gently remove any dirt, oils, or any other substance. Dry with a soft cloth immediately after.
    • Do not use any cleaning products or solvents, as they can damage the color and finish of the leather.
    • ​​​Clean your jewelry and leather gear when you take it off.
      • Simply wipe it down with a soft, dry cloth to remove any residue.
      • For plated jewelry, this requires extra care, as polishing cloths can remove the plating very quickly. 

    Store it safely

    • ​​​​​​​Keep your jewelry wrapped in a soft cloth, bag, or in a drawer.
    • You can hang it from a jewelry organizer, just do your best to keep it clean and untangled.
    • Avoiding exposure to air will prevent silver, copper, and brass from oxidizing.

    Other Common Concerns


    Tarnished Sterling Silver

    • Sterling silver is called '.925 sterling silver' because it contains 92.5% fine silver, the remaining 7.5% is copper, which makes it stronger/harder and also has the unfortunate side-effect of causing it to oxidize when exposed to moisture and air.
    • Oxidization, or tarnish, in sterling silver, is black, so you may think your jewelry is dirty.
      • Often it just needs a buff with a jewelry polishing cloth to look as good as new.
      • We are happy to polish, buff and refinish sterling silver jewelry for a small fee.

    Skin Irritation & Metal Allergies

    • All Restrained Grace-made products are nickel free unless noted otherwise. 
    • Our iridescent rainbow hardware contains chromium.
    • All of our jewelry and hardware is lead and nickel free.
    • Some people occasionally experience a burning, itching and/or redness, usually on the skin beneath jewelry and gear. This condition may be due to the build-up of soaps, lotion, dead skin, etc, or it may be chafing irritation.
      • To avoid skin irritation and to keep your pieces in tip-top-shape, do not wear your pieces when using cleaning products or lotions, and clean your pieces frequently.

    Black Residue

    • Certain types of cosmetics contain chemicals that can abrade your jewelry, causing a sort of metallic dust. This metallic dust often appears black and can cause smudges on your skin or clothing.
      • To avoid this problem, put on your jewelry after applying your cosmetics.
    • Black smudges may also be caused by corrosion due to perspiration, exposure to salts and exposure to hydrogen sulfide gas (present in polluted air, some foodstuffs and industrial chemicals).
      • To avoid these smudges, we recommend that you do not wear your jewelry while handling chemicals or products containing sulfur, and gently polish your jewelry often to remove tarnish.

    Still have questions?


    Customer Reviews

    Based on 6 reviews
    Iove it too much

    Well made and gorgeous on. I love it a little too much.


    Love it! Fits well and the rose gold is gorgeous


    It looked exactly as I was expecting, yet somehow better? The quality is fantastic and worth every penny I spent on it.

    Beautiful if lil short

    My lady loves her collar and has worn through every day since arrived.

    Collar itself is beautiful. Rose gold finish has tiny blemishes but nothing that detracts.

    Engraving is clean and clear and exactly as hoped for.

    Was sent well packaged and well wrapped safely in a solid box. Internationally shipped the exterior box is clearly worn and bashed but contents totally safe.

    Only comment is the length. My ladies neck is 13 inches round, so added an inch and ordered 14 to allow for lil room as suggested on site. Arrived and slightly under 13 inches. Means sits a lot higher than intended and is a choker more than where she would usually wear a day collar. She enjoys the tightness of it and as say has worn constantly since it arrived. Isnt a complaint and more something to be aware of when ordering.

    Couldnt quite justify 5 stars with length being not as asked for. If was any shorter at all wouldnt be wearable. Lil concerned about change in weather making unusable but will have to wait and see.

    Gold day collar

    Wife loved it.

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