Design Your Own Locking Mini BDSM Collar Collar Restrained Grace

Design Your Own Locking Mini BDSM Collar

Name: Design Your Own Locking Mini BDSM Collar
Brand: Restrained Grace
SKU: 28344236802125
Price: 45.0 USD
Availability: InStock

$45.00

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Leather Colors & Hardware

If we have it, it's listed. All colors shown here are what we have available.
Snap hook and buckle styles my vary depending on availability.

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Our Guarantee

Our handcrafted leather gear is made in-house -literally, out of our homes! If you ever have any concerns about your piece, please contact us, and we'll make it right.

Pairs well with

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Design Your Own Acrylic Collar Tag - Round
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Description

This 3/8" leather collar is delicate and discreet. It's narrow enough to be worn day-to-day as a choker or day collar, but still has the look and feel of a traditional BDSM collar, and locks with a small, working padlock, plated to match, which is included.

Handmade to order, made to your measurements.

Made to the exact measurement you provide, we recommend adding at least 1/2" to your neck measurement if you wish to wear it tight against your throat.
We highly recommend measuring exactly where you want the collar to rest.
This collar also looks incredibly lovely in a longer length, against the collar bone.
For help with measuring, check out our guide on taking measurements and our soft, flexible tape measure, which is free with any purchase.

Choose Your Leather

The 3/8" wide garment leather is double stitched and reinforced, as durable as it is comfortable.
Vegan options are marked with a V.
Hide leather options include neons and pastels - this leather is thicker and more stiff than our stitched garment leather, but still quite comfortable!

Nickel Free Hardware

All of our hardware is nickel free with clear finish for long wear, available in silver, gold, rose gold, or iridescent rainbow!
Optionally add a dainty and adorable loop to this collar that's perfect for adding a collar tag.
This collar closes with any working padlock.
The base price is for the collar without a lock, as many of our customers already own a collection of our custom padlocks, and we wish to reduce waste.
You can add on any of our currently available padlocks to personalize this collar and truly make it your own!

All locks come with two matching keys!
Optionally personalize your padlock with custom text in your choice of font.

Care & Cleaning

Storage, Care, & Cleaning

All of our pieces are made to last with proper care.
To keep your piece looking beautiful, we recommend the following:

Avoid getting it wet

Avoid getting leather wet, as this will warp and discolor the leather and eventually cause the leather to break down.

If you do accidentally get your leather wet, dry it off with a towel, and lay it flat to dry thoroughly in a cool, dry place.
Do not heat the leather in an attempt to dry it, as this will cause the leather to crack and warp.

Water, from a shower, pool, lake, ocean, and even sweat will react with the plating. Rose gold contains copper, and this will cause it to oxidize. Even sterling silver will oxidize black. This goes double for any piece with beads, including pearls and crystals. Water will damage any beading.

Avoid chemicals

Avoid getting sprays of any kind on your leather. Hairspray, perfume or cologne, or any other kinds of chemicals can negatively effect the finish of the leather, and build up over time.
Perfumes, body sprays, hair sprays, any kind of spray. Lotions, sunscreen, moisturizers. Anything you put on your body should be applied and dry before your jewelry or gear goes on.

Don't wear it 24/7

Plating, unfortunately, has a lifespan, and the more you wear it, the faster it will fade. We recommend solid gold, sterling silver and stainless steel for 24/7 collars.

Keep it clean

Our leather is fully finished and does not require any conditioning, however, you will want to make sure you keep it clean.
To clean your leather, use a damp cloth to gently remove any dirt, oils, or any other substance. Dry with a soft cloth immediately after.
Do not use any cleaning products or solvents, as they can damage the color and finish of the leather.
Clean your jewelry and leather gear when you take it off.

Simply wipe it down with a soft, dry cloth to remove any residue.
For plated jewelry, this requires extra care, as polishing cloths can remove the plating very quickly.

Store it safely

Keep your jewelry wrapped in a soft cloth, bag, or in a drawer.
You can hang it from a jewelry organizer, just do your best to keep it clean and untangled.
Avoiding exposure to air will prevent silver, copper, and brass from oxidizing.

Other Common Concerns

Tarnished Sterling Silver

Sterling silver is called '.925 sterling silver' because it contains 92.5% fine silver, the remaining 7.5% is copper, which makes it stronger/harder and also has the unfortunate side-effect of causing it to oxidize when exposed to moisture and air.
Oxidization, or tarnish, in sterling silver, is black, so you may think your jewelry is dirty.

Often it just needs a buff with a jewelry polishing cloth to look as good as new.
We are happy to polish, buff and refinish sterling silver jewelry for a small fee.

Skin Irritation & Metal Allergies

All Restrained Grace-made products are nickel free unless noted otherwise.
Our iridescent rainbow hardware contains chromium.
All of our jewelry and hardware is lead and nickel free.
Some people occasionally experience a burning, itching and/or redness, usually on the skin beneath jewelry and gear. This condition may be due to the build-up of soaps, lotion, dead skin, etc, or it may be chafing irritation.

To avoid skin irritation and to keep your pieces in tip-top-shape, do not wear your pieces when using cleaning products or lotions, and clean your pieces frequently.

Black Residue

Certain types of cosmetics contain chemicals that can abrade your jewelry, causing a sort of metallic dust. This metallic dust often appears black and can cause smudges on your skin or clothing.

To avoid this problem, put on your jewelry after applying your cosmetics.

Black smudges may also be caused by corrosion due to perspiration, exposure to salts and exposure to hydrogen sulfide gas (present in polluted air, some foodstuffs and industrial chemicals).

To avoid these smudges, we recommend that you do not wear your jewelry while handling chemicals or products containing sulfur, and gently polish your jewelry often to remove tarnish.

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Reviews

Gorgeous

Absolutely love this collar! It’s the perfect light pink. So soft and comfy. Only downside is shipping estimates weren’t accurate either time I ordered.

Love!

The leather is so soft and feels great on. I LOVE the fact that it locks and that the lock can be personalized. A beautiful collar that is subtle enough to wear all day but still solid enough to be a reminder of what it is, especially if your honorific is engraved on the lock. Love!

Love it

I got this in black and silver (through emailing Restrained Grace) I got it in the mail today and it is absolutely beautiful and elegant and since I'm a metalhead it goes well with my looks all while knowing I'm a taken sub/little I Love it so much!!

Best collar I've ever had!!!

My dom and I have finally gotten serious, and he decided to mark the occasion by dropping the money to buy me a Restrained Grace collar which I had fallen in love with (the class of the items sold was so cool to me!). I'm plus size and have a bigger neck so I had low hopes checking out the website, but I was GIDDY to find that they had an amazing range of sizes I haven't seen elsewhere. So we got the collar, and it arrived the day after Christmas (it had a Christmas shipping guarantee but I totally understand, the mail is crazy because of Covid.) We opened it immediately and were BLOWN AWAY at the craftsmanship. it fit perfectly, and since wearing it daily, the leather has relaxed a little bit and has fit to me snugly in a way no other collar has. I could even sleep in it if I wanted to. It came perfectly as we ordered and was fairly priced. You are receiving an item handmade with love, and it shows! I can't stop raving about this store. Going to buy again as soon as we can!!!

So soft!

I have never encountered such soft and realistic leather-feel faux leather before, and this is the absolute best.

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Bracelet love

This bracelet makes me feel super whole and full of self love! ❤️

Perfect Fit for your favorite "Good Girl"

Loved it....was a little concerned about the length of the chain, but it fell exactly where I wanted it - good quality, great price, and the perfect way to tell the world that your sub is a 'good girl' -- especially in rose gold. Thanks team for carrying this piece!

Simple n suttle

Love it.

So beautiful

This is the first collar I’ve ever purchased and I bought it as a gift to myself as a demonstration of self-ownership and love ☺️ it is better than I could have hoped for. It feels so nice and is gorgeous. I love wearing it.

Love it!

Love the collars, they are beautifully crafted and she doesn’t want to stop wearing them.