BDSM & Kink

Welcome to the kink department! A kink is a sexual habit or behavior that falls outside of social "norms". Bondage is a kink. Praise is a kink. Spanking is a kink, too! Many kinksters practice BDSM. What is BDSM, exactly? A compounded acronym which stands for “Bondage and Discipline” (B&D), “Dominance and Submission” (D/s), and “Sadism and Masochism” (S&M). We've got a lot more to say about all of this but that's what our blog is for!
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Implement Rack Christmas Ornament Ornament Restrained Grace

Implement Rack Christmas Ornament

$28.00
Oval Carabiner to Match Your Gear Snap Hook Restrained Grace

Oval Carabiner to Match Your Gear

$14.00
Good Girl - Praise Kink Necklace Necklace Restrained Grace

Good Girl - Praise Kink Necklace

$25.00
The All Metal Snap Hook Snap Hook Restrained Grace

The All Metal Snap Hook

$14.00
Cuff Chains to Match Your Gear - 12" Snap Hook Restrained Grace

Cuff Chains to Match Your Gear - 12"

$20.00
Contract

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Contract

Fake Dom Tears - Blush Pink & Rose Gold Enamel Pin Pin Restrained Grace

Fake Dom Tears - Blush Pink & Rose Gold Enamel Pin

$12.00
Custom Engraved Wooden BDSM Paddle Ornament Ornament Restrained Grace

Custom Engraved Wooden BDSM Paddle Ornament

$18.00
Brat Pink Sparkle Heart - Vinyl Sticker Sticker Restrained Grace

Brat Pink Sparkle Heart - Vinyl Sticker

$5.00
Cum Slut Collar Tag in Rose Gold Glitter Collar Tag Restrained Grace

Cum Slut Collar Tag in Rose Gold Glitter

$25.00
Sex Witch Planchette - Vinyl Sticker Sticker Restrained Grace

Sex Witch Planchette - Vinyl Sticker

$5.00
Bruised Booty Fuck Toy Sticker Sticker Restrained Grace

Bruised Booty Fuck Toy Sticker

$5.00
Wanting to Be in Control in the Bedroom Does Not Make You a Dom: On the Three Forms of Power Exchange in BDSM

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Wanting to Be in Control in the Bedroom Does Not Make You a Dom: On the Three Forms of Power Exchange in BDSM

Frankly 90's Good Girl - Vinyl Sticker Sticker Restrained Grace

Frankly 90's Good Girl - Vinyl Sticker

$5.00
Non-Practicing Intellectual Bimbo Doll Sticker Sticker Restrained Grace

Non-Practicing Intellectual Bimbo Doll Sticker

$5.00
I'd Rather Be in Rope Pink - Vinyl Sticker Sticker Restrained Grace

I'd Rather Be in Rope Pink - Vinyl Sticker

$5.00
The Sadist Poker Paddle Restrained Grace

The Sadist Poker

$14.00
Spit in My Mouth Rainbow Sparkle Vinyl Sticker Sticker Restrained Grace

Spit in My Mouth Rainbow Sparkle Vinyl Sticker

$5.00
Fetish Heart Pins Pin Restrained Grace

Fetish Heart Pins

$12.00
Pleasure is a Radical Act - Vinyl Sticker Sticker Restrained Grace

Pleasure is a Radical Act - Vinyl Sticker

$5.00
Cum Slut Sparkle Vinyl Sticker Sticker Restrained Grace

Cum Slut Sparkle Vinyl Sticker

$5.00
Make Me Rose Gold Brat Pin Pin Restrained Grace

Make Me Rose Gold Brat Pin

$12.00
Custom Engraved Paddle Earrings - BDSM Jewelry Earrings Restrained Grace

Custom Engraved Paddle Earrings - BDSM Jewelry

$25.00
Degradation

The Modern BDSM Glossary
Degradation

Bruised Booty Sparkle Vinyl Sticker Sticker Restrained Grace

Bruised Booty Sparkle Vinyl Sticker

$5.00
Bimbo Doll St. Andrews Cross Earrings Earrings Restrained Grace

Bimbo Doll St. Andrews Cross Earrings

$28.00
Mall Goth Kitten Collar Tag/Pendant Collar Tag Restrained Grace

Mall Goth Kitten Collar Tag/Pendant

$16.00
Celestial Witch BDSM Emblem - Vinyl Sticker Sticker Restrained Grace

Celestial Witch BDSM Emblem - Vinyl Sticker

$5.00
Cum Slut Collar Tag in White Pearl Collar Tag Restrained Grace

Cum Slut Collar Tag in White Pearl

$16.00
90s Babygirl Heart Hologram - Vinyl Sticker Sticker Restrained Grace

90s Babygirl Heart Hologram - Vinyl Sticker

$5.00
Good Girl Trophy Acrylic Praise Kink Pin Pin Restrained Grace

Good Girl Trophy Acrylic Praise Kink Pin

$14.00
Watercolor BDSM Emblem - Vinyl Sticker Sticker Restrained Grace

Watercolor BDSM Emblem - Vinyl Sticker

$5.00
Mall Goth Kitten - Vinyl Sticker Sticker Restrained Grace

Mall Goth Kitten - Vinyl Sticker

$5.00
TinyKittensDen - POC Adult BDSM Vinyl Sticker Sticker TinyKittensDen

TinyKittensDen - POC Adult BDSM Vinyl Sticker

$5.00
Bimbo Pink - Vinyl Sticker Sticker Restrained Grace

Bimbo Pink - Vinyl Sticker

$5.00
BDSM Emblem Necklace Necklace Restrained Grace

BDSM Emblem Necklace

$25.00
Consensual Non-Consent (CNC)

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Consensual Non-Consent (CNC)

For the Best Daddy - Key Wish Bracelet Bracelet Restrained Grace

For the Best Daddy - Key Wish Bracelet

$16.00
Pastel Mid Century Modern Kink 8x10 Art Print Wall Art Restrained Grace

Pastel Mid Century Modern Kink 8x10 Art Print

$20.00
Little One Pastel Heart - Vinyl Sticker Sticker Restrained Grace

Little One Pastel Heart - Vinyl Sticker

$5.00
Paw Print Stocking in White and Pink Stocking Restrained Grace

Paw Print Stocking in White and Pink

$18.00
Carnation Pink and White Vegan Reindeer Collar - BDSM Collar with Jingle Bells Collar Restrained Grace
12"-15"15"-18"18"-21"

Carnation Pink and White Vegan Reindeer Collar - BDSM Collar with Jingle Bells

$98.00
Bimbo Doll Toy Collection Earrings Earrings Restrained Grace

Bimbo Doll Toy Collection Earrings

$28.00
Doll Paddle Earrings Earrings Restrained Grace

Doll Paddle Earrings

$16.00
Precious Swirl Personalized Collar Display Display Restrained Grace

Precious Swirl Personalized Collar Display

$48.00
Master, Mistress, Mxtress, Mxtrix

The Modern BDSM Glossary
Master, Mistress, Mxtress, Mxtrix

99 Problems but my Hitachi Solves Most of Them - Vinyl Sticker Sticker Restrained Grace

99 Problems but my Hitachi Solves Most of Them - Vinyl Sticker

$5.00
Blush Pink & Rose Gold Implement Rack Christmas Ornament Ornament Restrained Grace

Blush Pink & Rose Gold Implement Rack Christmas Ornament

$28.00
Blush Pink & Rose Gold Pretty Kitty Bow Collar Collar Restrained Grace
18"-21"

Blush Pink & Rose Gold Pretty Kitty Bow Collar

$72.00
I'd Rather Be in Rope Green - Vinyl Sticker Sticker Restrained Grace

I'd Rather Be in Rope Green - Vinyl Sticker

$5.00
TinyKittensDen - POC Adult DDLG BDSM Vinyl Sticker Sticker TinyKittensDen

TinyKittensDen - POC Adult DDLG BDSM Vinyl Sticker

$5.00
Trad Goth Implement Rack Christmas Ornament Ornament Restrained Grace

Trad Goth Implement Rack Christmas Ornament

$28.00
Buffalo Check Goth Christmas Mini Collar Collar Restrained Grace
12"-14"18"-20"

Buffalo Check Goth Christmas Mini Collar

$48.00
Monogamy? In This Economy? - Polyamory Motel Keychain Keychain Restrained Grace

Monogamy? In This Economy? - Polyamory Motel Keychain

$15.00
Good Girl - BDSM Submissive Motel Keychain Keychain Restrained Grace

Good Girl - BDSM Submissive Motel Keychain

$15.00
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Little

Little

Our Definition an adult person who has a strong need to be coddled or cared for tenderly, and may enjoy “cute” or “childish” things; can be a term used for people who engage with age play. Is often, not always...
Self Ownership

Self Ownership

Our Definition The concept of a submissive providing care and structure for themself in the ways that a dominant partner might, in an effort to improve their self-worth, self-love, and overall standards. Often involves self-collaring.  Common Practices & Experiences  Everyone...
Brat Tamer

Brat Tamer

Our Definition a dominant who enjoys and/or prefers to play with bratty submissives; a dominant who enjoys punishing misbehavior. Common Practices & Experiences  Everyone is different! You'll see this repeated throughout our website and glossary. Common practices and experiences for...
Aftercare

Aftercare

Our Definition In BDSM, the time and attention given by one partner to another after an intense play experience, can be physical or emotional in nature.  Contrary to popular belief, aftercare is for everyone - not just bottoms and subs. Doms and...