Order by January 31st for Valentine's Day delivery.

The season
of love

*US Deliveries only. International customers should order by 1/14 and choose Priority Mail or Express Mail shipping.

Love is
love is
love

Our first ever polyamory collection is here just in time for Valentine's Day!

BDSM is for Every Body

Welcome to Restrained Grace, makers of elegant, feminine, and classically designed kink gear, day collars, and so much more. All of our leather and jewelry pieces are handcrafted, made to measure when you order. That means we have no size limitations, so whether you're petite, plus size or anywhere else across the spectrum, your dream collar and gear await you here.

As intersectional feminists, we believe that BDSM is for everybody, that there's no One True Way to do D/s, that self-love shouldn't be a radical act, that Ladies can be Daddy, men can wear pink and fishnets, and gendered products belong in the 1990's.

How to take your measurements

Most of our pieces are made to measure, which means you'll have to provide accurate measurements. Never fear! We've created a handy guide to taking your measurements.

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Choosing Your Day Collar

Learn the difference between silver, steel, gold plated, gold filled, and solid gold, so you can make an informed decision about your new day collar.

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Meet the Makers

Miss Annie & Miss Tara are owner/operators of Restrained Grace, and they intend to keep it that way. Learn more about our story and our process.

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What our fans are saying...

This collar looks amazing, fits perfectly, and is crafted with quality. The stitching work is perfection and the rose gold hardware looks amazing and has weight to it. The engraving looks professional. I don't usually rate anything 5 star but there is nothing I can think of to improve.

Sheena S.

I wanted a day collar that I wouldn’t see on every girl's neck. The color is perfect and rose gold is my favorite! Sir loves it too and I’m proud to wear it every day. The leather is very soft and well crafted and the charm is just the right size and color. Thank you from both of us.

Cynthia T.

My sub’s beautiful collar arrived and is exactly what I ordered. There were no photos on the site for what I was looking for, so after brief description later, we received her collar in exactly the style and colour combination desired. It’s beautiful, to match my sub.

Garth P.
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Solid Sterling Silver Petite Padlock
Solid .925 sterling silver is ideal for 24/7 wear. Add custom engraving in any of our 9 unique fonts. Comes with 2 matching keys for only $99!
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