Welcome to Restrained Grace, makers of elegant, feminine, and classically designed kink gear, day collars, and so much more. All of our leather and jewelry pieces are handcrafted, made to measure when you order. That means we have no size limitations, so whether you're petite, plus size or anywhere else across the spectrum, your dream collar and gear await you here.
As intersectional feminists, we believe that BDSM is for everybody, that there's no One True Way to do D/s, that self-love shouldn't be a radical act, that Ladies can be Daddy, men can wear pink and fishnets, and gendered products belong in the 1990's.
Most of our pieces are made to measure, which means you'll have to provide accurate measurements. Never fear! We've created a handy guide to taking your measurements.
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Learn the difference between silver, steel, gold plated, gold filled, and solid gold, so you can make an informed decision about your new day collar.
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Meet the Makers
Miss Annie & Miss Tara are owner/operators of Restrained Grace, and they intend to keep it that way. Learn more about our story and our process.
Sheena S.This collar looks amazing, fits perfectly, and is crafted with quality. The stitching work is perfection and the rose gold hardware looks amazing and has weight to it. The engraving looks professional. I don't usually rate anything 5 star but there is nothing I can think of to improve.
Cynthia T.I wanted a day collar that I wouldn’t see on every girl's neck. The color is perfect and rose gold is my favorite! Sir loves it too and I’m proud to wear it every day. The leather is very soft and well crafted and the charm is just the right size and color. Thank you from both of us.
Garth P.My sub’s beautiful collar arrived and is exactly what I ordered. There were no photos on the site for what I was looking for, so after brief description later, we received her collar in exactly the style and colour combination desired. It’s beautiful, to match my sub.
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We ship everywhere. Shipping is automatically calculated at checkout. Our packaging is plain, and our return address will show the name of our mainstream brand, Spiffing.
Miss Annie & Miss Tara own and operate all aspects of Restrained Grace from their home in Southern California.
Our pieces are handcrafted, by just two women, in our studio in San Diego, CA. All of our leather goods are made to your measurements.
