Nickel Free 

Bondage Gear

Made to measure at ANY size

(It's kind of our thing!)

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If you're new to all of this, try not to worry. 

We know exploring sexually, and with kink, can be daunting, so we're here to help. 

Our Latest Designs & Finds

So much is new, we can't keep up!

As we prepare to open our first ever brick and mortar store in San Diego, we're working on bringing the boutique vibes home to you! Not only will you be able to shop our full in-store selection online, but we're working on bringing all of our boutique experiences to you in 2021! Browse a much wider selection of products now! 


San Diego's Shame-Free Sex Shop

Coming Soon!

(But only if you're very good.)

Made-to-measure custom bondage gear in a rainbow of colors! Highly-curated implements of pleasure and pain.

Jewelry, books, apparel, home goods & gifts centered around
sex positivity, intersectional feminism, self love, and healthy relationships.

Follow along our work in progress:

San Diego's 

Shame-Free Sex Shop

Coming Soon!

(But only if you're very good.)

Made-to-measure custom bondage gear in a rainbow of colors! Highly-curated implements of pleasure and pain.

Jewelry, books, apparel, home goods & gifts centered around sex positivity, intersectional feminism, self love, and healthy relationships.

Follow along our work in progress:

Okay, but like, who ARE we?

Restrained Grace offers handcrafted, high-end, high femme bondage gear, a selection of highly-curated objects of pain and pleasure, fine jewelry, and gifts. Our leather and faux leather pieces are made to measure at any size. 


As anti-racist, intersectional feminists, we believe that BDSM is for everybody, that there's no One True Way to do D/s, kink is custom, Black Lives Matter, self-love shouldn't be a radical act, ladies can be Daddy, men can wear fishnets, and gendered products belong in the 1990's.


We've just expanded our team, and we're working on a brand new page to introduce everyone to you, coming very soon!

Thanks for shopping with us!

Miss Annie & Miss Tara

The Restrained Grace Back Room

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