Custom Made Leather Martingale Collar Collar Restrained Grace
Custom Made Leather Martingale Collar Collar Restrained Grace
Custom Made Leather Martingale Collar Collar Restrained Grace
Custom Made Leather Martingale Collar Collar Restrained Grace
Custom Made Leather Martingale Collar Collar Restrained Grace
Custom Made Leather Martingale Collar Collar Restrained Grace
Custom Made Leather Martingale Collar Collar Restrained Grace
Custom Made Leather Martingale Collar Collar Restrained Grace
Custom Made Leather Martingale Collar Collar Restrained Grace
Custom Made Leather Martingale Collar Collar Restrained Grace
Custom Made Leather Martingale Collar Collar Restrained Grace

Design Your Own Classic Martingale Collar


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Leather Colors & Hardware
  • If we have it, it's listed. All colors shown here are what we have available.
  • Snap hook and buckle styles my vary depending on availability.

Hardware Color: Choose an option

Rose Gold
Iridescent Rainbow
Raw Brass
Stainless Steel

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Our Guarantee

Our handcrafted leather gear has a lifetime warranty for rivets and stitching. Simply email us if you ever have an issue with the construction of your gear.


A martingale collar is an elegant take on a choke collar, with a length of chain and ring of O front and center, it's stylish, comfortable, and functional. It's width is solid and a heavy reminder, while the leather is comfortable and easy to wear. Its modern, minimalist style makes it perfectly unisex. 

Handmade to order, made to your measurements.
    • A note on fit: martingale collars are not meant to be tight when worn, as there needs to be slack on the chain for the choke chain to work. Therefore, this style collar is extremely comfortable, and is great for those with sensory needs. It's not until the ring is tugged that this collar will feel snug. (And, oh, what a feeling!)
    • The measurement you provide will be the smallest option, it will adjust 2" above that in 1/2" increments.
    • For help with measuring, check out our guide on taking measurements and our soft, flexible tape measure, which is free with any purchase.
Choose Your Leather
    • The 1" wide garment leather is double stitched and reinforced, as durable as it is comfortable.
    • Vegan color options are marked with a V.
Nickel Free Hardware
    • 1" (25mm) ring of O.
    • All of our hardware is nickel free, available in silver, gold, rose gold, iridescent rainbow or raw brass!
    • Iron-based chain is nickel free and lead free.
Additional Information
Hardware Color

Silver, Gold, Rose Gold, Iridescent Rainbow, Raw Brass, Stainless Steel

Care & Cleaning

Storage, Care, & Cleaning

    All of our pieces are made to last with proper care. 
    To keep your piece looking beautiful, we recommend the following:

    Avoid getting it wet

    • Avoid getting leather wet, as this will warp and discolor the leather and eventually cause the leather to break down.
      • If you do accidentally get your leather wet, dry it off with a towel, and lay it flat to dry thoroughly in a cool, dry place.
      • Do not heat the leather in an attempt to dry it, as this will cause the leather to crack and warp.
    • Water, from a shower, pool, lake, ocean, and even sweat will react with the plating. Rose gold contains copper, and this will cause it to oxidize. Even sterling silver will oxidize black. This goes double for any piece with beads, including pearls and crystals. Water will damage any beading.

    Avoid chemicals

    • Avoid getting sprays of any kind on your leather. Hairspray, perfume or cologne, or any other kinds of chemicals can negatively effect the finish of the leather, and build up over time.
    • Perfumes, body sprays, hair sprays, any kind of spray. Lotions, sunscreen, moisturizers. Anything you put on your body should be applied and dry before your jewelry or gear goes on.

    Don't wear it 24/7

    • ​​​​​​​Plating, unfortunately, has a lifespan, and the more you wear it, the faster it will fade. We recommend solid gold, sterling silver and stainless steel for 24/7 collars.

    Keep it clean

    • Our leather is fully finished and does not require any conditioning, however, you will want to make sure you keep it clean. 
    • To clean your leather, use a damp cloth to gently remove any dirt, oils, or any other substance. Dry with a soft cloth immediately after.
    • Do not use any cleaning products or solvents, as they can damage the color and finish of the leather.
    • ​​​Clean your jewelry and leather gear when you take it off.
      • Simply wipe it down with a soft, dry cloth to remove any residue.
      • For plated jewelry, this requires extra care, as polishing cloths can remove the plating very quickly. 

    Store it safely

    • ​​​​​​​Keep your jewelry wrapped in a soft cloth, bag, or in a drawer.
    • You can hang it from a jewelry organizer, just do your best to keep it clean and untangled.
    • Avoiding exposure to air will prevent silver, copper, and brass from oxidizing.

    Other Common Concerns


    Tarnished Sterling Silver

    • Sterling silver is called '.925 sterling silver' because it contains 92.5% fine silver, the remaining 7.5% is copper, which makes it stronger/harder and also has the unfortunate side-effect of causing it to oxidize when exposed to moisture and air.
    • Oxidization, or tarnish, in sterling silver, is black, so you may think your jewelry is dirty.
      • Often it just needs a buff with a jewelry polishing cloth to look as good as new.
      • We are happy to polish, buff and refinish sterling silver jewelry for a small fee.

    Skin Irritation & Metal Allergies

    • All Restrained Grace-made products are nickel free unless noted otherwise. 
    • Our iridescent rainbow hardware contains chromium.
    • All of our jewelry and hardware is lead and nickel free.
    • Some people occasionally experience a burning, itching and/or redness, usually on the skin beneath jewelry and gear. This condition may be due to the build-up of soaps, lotion, dead skin, etc, or it may be chafing irritation.
      • To avoid skin irritation and to keep your pieces in tip-top-shape, do not wear your pieces when using cleaning products or lotions, and clean your pieces frequently.

    Black Residue

    • Certain types of cosmetics contain chemicals that can abrade your jewelry, causing a sort of metallic dust. This metallic dust often appears black and can cause smudges on your skin or clothing.
      • To avoid this problem, put on your jewelry after applying your cosmetics.
    • Black smudges may also be caused by corrosion due to perspiration, exposure to salts and exposure to hydrogen sulfide gas (present in polluted air, some foodstuffs and industrial chemicals).
      • To avoid these smudges, we recommend that you do not wear your jewelry while handling chemicals or products containing sulfur, and gently polish your jewelry often to remove tarnish.

    Still have questions?


    Customer Reviews

    Based on 11 reviews
    Carolyn L.
    So beautiful

    This is the first collar I’ve ever purchased and I bought it as a gift to myself as a demonstration of self-ownership and love ☺️ it is better than I could have hoped for. It feels so nice and is gorgeous. I love wearing it.

    Melinda H.

    This is gorgeous and sexy. I'm so happy.

    Tevell W.
    Just what we were looking for

    The collar was a great fit, I chose it to be a little smaller than suggested and it was exactly as I'd hoped, something that catches attention quickly without having to do too much of a pull. It looks lovely upon their neck and I couldn't be happier!

    Brittany R.
    Its Perfect!

    Its beautifully designed ♡ I absolutely love the colors and the way it feels! Definitely NOT cheap material. 10/10 recommend

    Bob S.
    Great collar

    I purchased this collar for my girlfriend as a semi-surprise (she knew she was getting a collar just didn't know what it would be) and she loves it! It's beautiful, functional and expertly finished. I'll definitely be back for more.

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