Brat Tamer

Brat Tamer

Our Definition

a dominant who enjoys and/or prefers to play with bratty submissives; a dominant who enjoys punishing misbehavior.

Common Practices & Experiences 

Everyone is different! You'll see this repeated throughout our website and glossary. Common practices and experiences for brat tamers include, but certainly aren't limited to:
  • Communicating with partners and prospective scene partners about the type of bratting that is preferred, as well as about boundaries and limitations.
  • Involving some degree of role-play in scenes.
  • Engaging with “funishment” 
  • Preferring play that involves the trappings of a fight. 
  • “Conqueror” fantasies 
Steve likes when his partner “misbehaves” in-scene and enjoys doling out funishment. 
Harlo feels more dominant in-scene when his partner puts up a fight. 

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Real Life Examples

We're gathering short anecdotes on this topic from experienced kinksters!
If you'd like to be quoted in our glossary, please email us a single paragraph describing the practices you'd like to share, along with whatever name you'd like to be credited with.
If your definition differs from ours, tell us how and why! We want to illustrate as many sides of kink as we can to both normalize kink and the diversity within it.

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