Our Definition
refers to an individual who derives meaning and satisfaction from contributing resources to their partner, and providing for their needs and/or advancing their goals. Can be dominant, submissive, or a switch.
Common Practices & Experiences
Everyone is different! You'll see this repeated throughout our website and glossary. Common practices of service oriented individuals include, but certainly aren't limited to:
- Performing tasks, or helping a partner to perform a task that would be hard or stressful for them to do on their own.
- Providing comfort and reassurance to a partner in various ways.
June loves cooking their partner’s favorite meals, especially when they know their partner has had a difficult day, and that the food served will be a great comfort to their partner.
Molly’s submissive partner gets anxious while driving, so Molly is glad to offer them rides when she can.
