Common Practices & Experiences
- Assumption that different people share the same definition of Safe
- Assumption that different people share the same definition of Sane
- Emphasis on safety-oriented standards and practices, both proactive and reactive
- Strong skepticism or wariness towards edge-play activities, even between informed and consenting adults
Tom and Pam meet up at a party and go home with one another to enjoy some impact play in private. Tom wants to use a two-handed mace as a bludgeon. Pam does not consent. She states that no two-handed mace can be used safely or sanely.