Our Definition
The concept of a submissive providing care and structure for themself in the ways that a dominant partner might, in an effort to improve their self-worth, self-love, and overall standards. Often involves self-collaring.
Common Practices & Experiences
Everyone is different! You'll see this repeated throughout our website and glossary. Common practices and experiences involving self ownership include, but certainly aren't limited to:
- Staying accountable to one’s goals through a list, journal, or app.
- Reflecting on what kind of submissive one would like to be, and what one’s ideal dynamic would look like.
- Taking initiative in furthering one’s goals
- Being attentive to one’s own needs
- Practicing self-care
- Wearing a collar to represent self-ownership
Joy keeps a journal with daily checklists in order to stay accountable to their goals.
After a breakup with her longtime master, Sarina decided to be her own daddy to the fullest; wearing a collar to represent her commitment to herself and nurturing her inner submissive.
