also known as Clueless Horny Dom Wannabe (CHDW) or Tumblr Dom
A disparaging term for someone who has recently joined the kink community, usually online, seeking sex partners, often displaying disrespectful behavior, such as the expectation that s-types to submit to them just because they call themselves a Dominant.
Common Practices & Experiences
- Being rude and presumptuous
- A level of cluelessness about real life and how a power exchange dynamic could realistically be incorporated into one’s real life (I.e. “You won’t be allowed clothes and you will sleep in a dog bed, because I say so” [ never mind that you have a full time job where clothing is expected, and a health condition that would be worsened by sleeping on a dog bed.])