Welcome to our glossary! We believe BDSM is customizable. There's no one size fits all for relationships, sex, or kink. Here you can explore, share, and learn about the many ways these things are practiced.

Welcome to our glossary! We believe BDSM is customizable. There's no one size fits all for relationships, sex, or kink. Here you can explore, share, and learn about the many ways these things are practiced.

Our Definition

a (usually primary) intimate partnership which allows for sexual connections with others either conditionally or as a general rule.

Common Practices & Experiences

Everyone is different! You'll see this repeated throughout our website and glossary. Common practices and experiences involving open relationships include, but certainly aren't limited to:

  • Establishing expectations and boundaries at the beginning of any new relationship
  • frequently communicating about whether the established expectations and boundaries are working well
  • Re-evaluating specific boundaries as needed.
  • Developing trust and understanding of one’s partner 
  • Working towards feeling secure in your relationship
  • Doing research about different types of non-monogamy 
  • Self-assessment about what you do and do not want out of your relationship. 

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